If a d3d12 memory holds non-direct-queue fence but the fence was
created with D3D12_FENCE_FLAG_SHARED flag, use the fence instead of
waiting for fence at CPU side. Note that d3d12ipcsrc or
d3d12screencapture elements will hold such sharable fence.
Part-of: <https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/gstreamer/gstreamer/-/merge_requests/7139>