When gst_element_set_state is called in _setup_locked and errors, the
callback is already processed before we reach handle_current_async, and
the timer is started even though it's finished processing, which results
in a NULL pointer crash later in async_timeout_cb.
To fix this, we check that it's still processing before calling
handle_current_async.
Fixes#1683
Part-of: <https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/gstreamer/gstreamer/-/merge_requests/4936>