Split fields ends up on multiple picture and requires accessing the other_field to complete the information (POC). This also cleanup the DPB from non-reference (was not useful) and skips properly merge field instead of keeping them duplicated. This fixes most of interlace decoding seen in fluster. Part-of: <https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/gstreamer/gst-plugins-bad/-/merge_requests/2474>